my pets

I've always been a person, who luv the company of pets.. when i was too young may be around 4 yrs, i had a Alsatian dog his name was RAMU frankly i hardly remember him though the fact i know is that he was too huge, me in spite of being very small i used to control him.one day i remember that he was barking loud and i felt like he was requesting me to be with him so i slept with him on the floor but at night i was back in my room..the next day, we found him dead ( he was quite old). i cried a lot and decided to have no pets thinking they would leave me.Then i had few cats in my house and i used to play with neighbourhood dogs. i started to get along with an other dogie, his name was TUFFI he was a Pomeranian dog. later i had 2 dogs 1. white Lhasa apso (DENNIS) and 2.black dash hound (MARTIN) they were too cute and adorable.martin was very possessive guy and dennies had always had a don't care attitude though i used to feel he is very expressive he used to sit on my scooty and through up a lotta attitude...
 Then we shifted to a new place and there i had a new girl SUZI (a German Shepard) she was very energetic and full of life but as she grew old and due to some health problem she expired and my family tried to keep it a secret from me as i got to know it i cried a lot :(.Then i had BRUNO (brown dash hound)..we used to call him poriki as this fellow had bit everyone in the house n left not even one :) very notorious guy though...then we thought he needed a company to play so we goth a retriever JUNO.one day Bruno as usual jumped outta main gate n went out for roaming then unfortunately some vehicle hit him n he died too..this time Juno was feeling lonely so we got another dachshund to give him company any we named this new guy as DON this guy was too cute and we called him a an factory (as he used to chew anything n everything possible.:) ).
 we had to give away these two doggies n i was feeling very bad then i got my friends Labrador SCOTCH omg she is the laziest dog Ive ever seen in my life she eats a lot but she is soo lazy that often even when she is hungry, she looks at the food n think some hundred times to go and eat it.seeing this, we thought she needed a company and also we needed a watch dog for home so i got this black n brown colored dash hound and named him BENZO..he is a sweet heart too adorable and too friendly at the same time very naughty.
But the best thing that happened is thanks to ms.scotch looking at her being lazy even benzo boy thinks twice to do any work guess scotch has told him "dude chillax don't bark and waste your energy..learn from me..'' Time passed by too fast , I had to leave these buddies,parents and friends to start a new life. Few months later,I came to know that my scotchy had died too due to her obese body and age.. Benzo got very depressed and all his hyperactive ness started detoriating in the absence of me and scotch . This gave me a clear idea that our change phases of life does make a huge impact on our best friends life..

1 year after marriage, we have managed to live without a doggie but then we realized it was time to get a new buddy and got a beagle boy  TURBO.. He was and is very very hyperactive and notorious.. He chews everything and anything.. We took him for a dog show and  here was no man who didn't like this guy so finally to our suprise, he became the champion of dog show in Nellore .he is adorable. Though we brought him enough toys, he enjoys spoiling the household items..

These r my sweet encounters with my doggies...guys trust me they r the sweetest ones they could be Ur best of friends..sometimes when u feel blue, just sit with them n talk u will start feeling how much they care for u and the naughty n sweet things that they do will make to help divertingyourself :) DOGS R MAN'S BEST FRIENDS:)

Best moments of my life

• Birthday celebrations and surprised by friends

• Joining college and learning not just the subject but also a vast variety of people.

• Small limitless adventures like going out with friends and doing something as we felt like doing it right at that moment

• Roaming in the streets of Belgium , London and then in Springfield. exploring new places , understanding people and differences.

• Not knowing a single bit of the language, roaming all alone in an unknown place in Belgium and get excited to find nice sales happening in shops and end up buying random things and later realize I still haven't found my way back to hostel(experience @Belgium)

• Despite knowing I'm lost and clueless, connecting knots to figure where I am and how far might my destination be finally reach the destination though by going round about the same place ;). (trust me if u do this and think later u will feel it as an achievement )

• Joining work , initially to know who it feels when u work in a big company and later start enjoying it more than expected.

• Celebrating festival or free time with the little god children like orphans and physically / mentally challenged and then realize what we call as challenges are not really big challenges in comparison to them.

aghori

This blog is based on a small reasearch i have done on Aghoris as i found them interesting.

Aghoris are the lord shivji's disciples.

In Hinduism, “there is no evil, everything is emanated from ‘Brahman’, so how could anything in this universe be impure”? this  is the kind of philosophy the aghori babas follow. 

According to them anything in this universe is the manifestation of god itself, so everything is as pure as god and is god like, so abandoning anything is like abandoning god itself. well after reading this even i felt yeah may be its true right? god is the who made everything how can we say its bad? something bad to me could be good to you and viceversa. think about it.....

moving on,

The aghori mainly worship lord Shiva, according to the sect every human is a ‘shava’(dead body) with emotions and they should try to become ‘Shiva’ by denying the human pleasures and involving in the aghori rituals.

Apparently, there are many aghoris walking the streets of northern India with kapala(skull cup). These aghoris eat anything, when I said anything, it really meant anything like rotten food, food from the dumps, the animal faeces, animal urine.. etc they regularly perform rites here are many aghoris walking the streets of northern India with kapala(skull cup). These aghoris eat anything, when I said anything, it really meant anything like rotten food, food from the dumps, the animal faeces, animal urine.. etc they regularly perform rites.

Also remember, while the Aghori can perceive more than the average man, every average man has the same potential, but his consciousness is weighed down by his Karma.

Aghoris do NOT move 'everywhere by air'. Their consciousnesses are freer to move around in creation, given that their Karmic standing is a lot better than many others'.  The person free from ASHTA PASA (eight ropes of behavior) is "Shiva" and tied with is "JIVA". Disgust is one of ASHTA PASA. It is our cultured mind that stops us from disgust. For normal human what smells, looks bad is disgusting till one cross the boarder. Crossing barriers doesn’t mean becoming a psychopath. There is entire teaching, rules and morals behind this. A proper Aghori (beside crazy man) is beyond ASHTA PASA.

We sometime focus more only on flesh eating part of Aghori . When we heard of Aghori we think of flesh eater. The simple nature of human is to be more curious with what is different from him. In fact, flesh eating with Aghori is just as simple feature like we often eat meat or tell lies or steal if needed. Aghori don’t eat flesh everyday like we eat hamburger. This practice is related to specific time and practice.

This might not be true with a killer cannibal but Aghori don’t pray man for meal. This is completely nonsense. Their practice is based on “BALI SIDHANTA” (Principal of sacrifices).

by the way the process of becoming a Aghori aint  a easy deal. significant first and most basic things are, 

1. Find a master .you select the master and that master may or may not select you.

2. once selected, you have to find a Kapala(skull cup) . this would be there with you all along the process of turnign to be an Aghora.

3. during Navaratri you would have to sit in the cemetery during Mid-Night and do many pooja for Shiva and Kali.


4. after almost 45 days, if your Guruji is pleased with your performance then you can be called an Aghori.


5. last but not the least many Aghoris have power due to long and very concentrated prayers. but they are not designated to do these for their willingness  or for materialistic profits.

Will some one believe that the person who is going to be scarified urge Aghori to do that ? But this is what Aghori/person does. No body who knows “DAKSHINAMNAYA AGHOR” is going to reveal about this publicly. This is because AGHOR (Aghorism) is GUPTA SASHTRA (Secret learning).

The physical knowledge that we gain today limit us to the physical world that we feel (see, hear, smells etc..) now, day to day. Aghorism prepare Aghor for the world after death........ 

 

Raising a kid

Many parents say that they have experienced a lot or issues and hurdles in coming up in life because of their weak economic condition and often they say this as a reason and end up trying utilizing the maximum time and effort possible to earn a good economic stability so that they could provide their children all the possible facilities etc., which they haven’t had in their childhood hence they make themselves get too busy in the rat race.

 But often not realizing that the time they are spending in buying the luxuries for the children is exhausting the time that they spend with their children. It is not just the parents, now with they entry of the new toys and things, the child would keep him/ herself be occupied and may not feel it much that they are missing their parents. we all know that the childhood is the most vital phase in a persons life and these innocent children would have a less parental support at this phase because of their business.

Parents now-a-days, buy a lot a toys and games for their children. But before buying, they check for the cautions and the age limit written on the carton. It is good being cautious and at this point, they are being cautious but they forget that they are making the child become much more sensitive towards the external environment. Though prevention is better that cure, prevention should not be to an extent that child avoids it. For example, a one year kid, in olden days used to get a crawler that he/she could hold it and gain support in walking. Now, the parents are afraid that the child would fall using the crawler and get hurt so they buy small/automated cars so that the child can be more comfortable and move from places.

Change and advancement is good but only to a certain extent.The mental growth of the new age children is very fast. This is good so is the risk of them getting into bad habits or addictions is…If we could recall once, our older generations had more children in the family any the money used to not so much as now. Yet the parents tried to keep their children happy. Parents used to get one fruit for their four children and distribute it to four of them equally. That time sharing was caring. But now, as there is only one child in the family, the question of sharing has become invisible.

Those days the word we was used predominantly and now a days it changed to me. Are we implanting the seeds of selfishness in our children? Even if there are two children in a family, there are things that are separate for each of them they have their individual rooms, individual toys etc. hence their willingness to share has reduces in fact, minimized very evidently.

Think about it and you will understand the mistake is in us, not to blame the innocent kids that they were sleeping when you came back home from work and all tired.

college life

Hey i see a smile on ur face..the minute we see or talk about college often a small smile appears on our face.....:)

college a community where we spend a part of our life. made friends , had fun fights, been ragged or rag juniors, tease fellow students, help few, hurt few, tensions during exams and result announcing days,  ( loads to pen so lets stop abt feelings n blah) one question i asked many {y u go to college? the answer was 1. to have fun, 2. to gain knowledge and do something for the society or thyself} .....:)


 The next que i asked was wat did u learn. the answer was again. it was loads and loads of theory etc..many in our generation has the craze of bunking classes n going to watch some movie and hang out with friends. College is a time when the "cool kids" disappear. Who you eat lunch with does not define you as a person. There is no such thing as "un-cool."

College really was the best time of our life. Balancing academic and social life is difficult. This balance is something that most likely our parents helped us with in high school in college, we can no longer relied on our parents for structure, rules, or academic motivation. All of these were in our hands. Being at college can be socially overwhelming an array of evening and weekend activities was open to us, including lectures, club/organization events, formals, dorm events,night outs during the exams, taste the flavour of success or failure and of course, parties.

If we were from anywhere other than a big city, most of our friends are probably a lot like us. we may not all share the same personality, but the things we considered "normal" are probably the same. our parents are probably a lot like our friends' parents. They probably even share the same tax bracket. we visited to the same type of restaurants as our friends...:)


 we and our friends probably share similar ideas of what is fun to do on a Friday night. Until we got to college, it rarely occurs to us that life could be any different, until we find yourself surrounded by hundreds of students just like us, with very different stories. we quickly learnt that "normal" simply doesn't exist. One of the best things about going to college is the opportunity to interact with a wide variety of cultures. Students from the other side of the world and the other side of the county will likely both be living on our dorm floor. getting rid of stage fear by constant presentations.

i guess college not just teach us theory. guys look what college has though us. it thought us how to live how to win. i feel it lets us know and understand how we can fit in the world. it helps to understand importance of being good to people, it helps us to get ready for some adjustments,  makes us ready to face the real world, makes us to find the people for life, handle the pressure, importance of being known by people. great memories and expectations. 

now, lets Welcome ourselves to college, where we are now considered an adult....:)


 When we reach your 30s, we would likely look back at our college experience and wish we really could do it all over again.cherish the moments. be happy :) 

world

WOAH ....!!!!!

This would have been the first expression on many people faces as they saw the title "world"

i know that for a matter of fact that we cant talk much about the world as it would have no end for the topic.

for me world is really complicated. we strive for peace and harmony and we revolt for them vch means we are breaking the peace. the world is made of people ( i know u guys aint kids to not know the dictionary meaning of this in a blog) vast is the word for the variety of people living.....:)

Sometimes i wonder oxford and thesaurus would have fallen short of adjectives to describe people in the world. all the religions and their preachings r just to say us how to lead a peaceful and good life (though everyone interprets them in their own sweet ways) . but the current scenario of world is entirely different from what it was.....

Almost all the youngsters have this popular notion in their mouth " i want to show the world that i.." .( no comments on this) now a days we hardly use the word "we" most of the time its about i, me and myself. some say " i dont care what the world think"  we can say this only when we stop thinking as our thinking often revolves on the world around us. also remember we die when we stop thinking so better no say " i dont care what the world think's"when u know u actually r thinking about the world.

Remember we come alone and go alone but most important  thing is, to give our life a proper meaning for our existance on the world. only the dominant things (good or bad) we have done in life we be   remembered. you life would me meaningful only if you are deeply missed

live n let live .......:)

hobby

          

  The dictionary definition for this word,.... hobby is  an auxiliary activity.. cool it means something which is an activity or interest pursued for pleasure or relaxation and not as a main occupation..so when friends often ask me, what my hobby is.. simple my hobby is THINKING, DREAMING AND DOING ;)..  my hobby has no definition nor a particular name because my hobby is to do whatever i want to do at that moment.....:)

                                         

              I like to play with small kids n to scare them, i like to listen to music and READ the music ( i don't sing the songs as i don't have much patience) i like travelling and exploring but don't like walking. i like to play with doggies but i cant tolerate street dogs.i like to ride the bike fast but not like to sit behind.....:)

               I like the peaceful surroundings and stay in tranquility and i often feel peace is boring and i love loud music..i like to talk but i prefer listening...i don't like the color pink but often pick up things in pink.i like to question and i prefer answering the queries..i am confused but i hate confusion..:) i like simple things and i prefer complications...... :)